I am not the most patient person in the world, not by a long shot. And I feel guilty when I’m impatient with someone…well, most of the time. Last night, my lovely new neighbors were outside yelling at someone in a car and someone threw something that hit my door. The cats scattered in fear, that’s how loud it was. Without thinking of the consequences, I rushed to the door, unlocked it, and jerked it open, giving them all my evil stare. It must be a pretty frightening look because the people in the car took off and the dear, sweet neighbors went inside. These people have only lived here for about two months and this kind of behavior happens every week or so. Just a tad annoying.
How does this have anything to do with me not being patient, you might ask. I mean, I didn’t go out there with my gun and threaten to shoot them all…oh wait, I don’t have a gun (I’m thinking that may be a good thing). I didn’t call the police although I do think someone must have because they drove by not too long after the incident. I didn’t go over and pound on their door and yell and scream at them…okay, a couple of reasons I didn’t do that…I’m not really the yelling and screaming type and I tend to be a little cowardly when faced with a group of people who might want to do me bodily harm. But I also didn’t go over and try to speak with them after everyone had calmed down. I didn’t explain to them that I’m not all that healthy, I have difficulty sleeping, and I’m still working 40+ hours a week. I just kind of stewed for the rest of the night.
When I left to go to work this morning, there was a note taped to my door. The lady apologized to me for being too loud, saying her younger, under-aged sister came over wanting her to go out and buy her and her friends some alcohol. That’s what precipitated the argument. Okay, so it still wasn’t right for them to be yelling and throwing things, disturbing everyone who lives in the neighborhood. But…she did apologize and that’s more than most folks are willing to do.
Hmm…after reading this again, I think I’ve been fairly patient with them over the past two months. Maybe a better question would be how can I learn to peacefully confront people and talk things through? Or am I being naïve? Oh well, wouldn’t be the first time.
- It’s always about forgiveness and patience (tikkitumble.wordpress.com)
- What Does Patience Truly Mean? (aarondseal.wordpress.com)